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In his engaging memoir, Dr. Allan Hamilton (2009) writes, "No one accomplishes anything in this life on his or her own. Even when we stare in awe at what might appear to be a solitary feat–like climbing to the top of a mountain alone–there is invisible support. There are loved ones at home who cherish the adventure. A mentor to teach. A colleague with whom the experience can be shared. And unseen magic too” (p. 243). As I near the conclusion of my educational journey, I echo the words of Dr. Hamilton and find myself reflecting on the immense support I have received from loved ones, mentors, and colleagues who have helped me climb this mountain.
First and foremost, thank you to my wife Staci. Even after 23 years of marriage, she continues to be my best friend and the one I want to talk to at the end of the day. She always inspires me to be the best possible version of myself and was there to reassure me every single time I doubted myself along the way. Without her, I would not have been able to pursue my academic dreams.
Thank you to my children, Allie and Ethan, for their understanding and patience all of those nights and weekends I spent in my office writing papers. Their humor, compassion for others, and joy for life are contagious. Being their father will always be my greatest accomplishment.
Thanks also to my mother for her steady support in every aspect of my life. The way she embodies love in the world motivates me to do the same.
Dr. Trevor Cox was the first person to suggest that leadership studies could be the next step in my life, and he was right (as he is about many, many things). I am so grateful for the multitude of lunches spent discussing leadership and life. His friendship means more to me than he likely knows.
I would express my deep gratitude to Dr. Jeni McRay, who was the first member of the faculty I spoke to about the program. I remember thinking, "If this is the kind of person I can learn from in this program, then I am all in." Her unmatched encouragement and passion for leadership sustained me many times along this journey. She will forever be one of my favorite professors.
Thank you to Dr. Brent Goertzen for his wisdom and guidance. He has been a tremendous advisor during this program, patiently answering every question from this adult student who made his way back to college after a 20-year absence.
Thank you also to my classmates. I have been inspired by their stories and challenged daily by their knowledge, experiences, and perspectives. I am grateful for the insightful feedback and generous teamwork that made this educational experience rich and meaningful.
Finally, thank you to my father. His unwavering belief in the power of education has been a guiding star in my life. I am simply following his path and walking in his shoes. My greatest desire has always been to make him proud.
To all of you, your support has been anything but invisible.
Reference
Hamilton, A. J. (2009). The scalpel and the soul: Encounters with surgery, the supernatural, and the healing power of hope.
Jeremy P. Tarcher/Putnam.